*蝴蝶夫人*♥

*[ June 30, 2009 ]*

Okay. Pictures of the pool trip on the 20th with 3.1...

At sengkang. Like it. Even thou i din play. But i'm glad i went. ;)

on our way there.

Kyan got scolding again > emo one corner

Waiting for MacD breakfast before swimming.

(So happy and anticipating)

Then, the breakfast came along just cm away from them...

The photo of the year when i told him to smile for the camera.

(*could not stop laughing)

The cheeky babies.

Mei in her swim suit...

Wonder why was she so happy...

Then the beginning of the journey..

Setting of a portion of the pool.

Looks alike to wild wild wet seriously.

Entrance fee $2/adult.

Warming up meimei~

The girls with yansyans..

Mr Ryan with his water gun (very happy on land)

San-yi and si-yi~

The slide...

Refilling the gun is what he does there.. (yes, the only thing)

Backs :P

His exact facial expression when you splash water at him!

Meimei still emo after warming up.

And then she felt better after the saviour fishballs came to the rescue..

Er-yi~

Small-yiyi~

And the man of the day engross with iphone.. =.="

P.s: I want to go again! ;)))

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*[ June 29, 2009 ]*

First, here's a little story:

"Middle children often are the forgotten children. This is especially true if the older sibling happens to be the same sex as the middle child. I was a middle child who had an older sister and a younger brother. My sister was the first born so needless to say received tons of attention. By the time I came, everyone was hoping for a boy, but they got me instead. My younger brother came and everyone was once again excited."

"I tried in the beginning to get attention but after several failed attempts I just started to act like I didn't want attention. I built a protective barrier around myself. My barrier was a smart mouth, bad temper, and constant back talking and complaining. This was very effective in keeping everyone at a distance. I then told myself that I was rejecting them, not them rejecting me."

"I think that middle children learn to be independent survivors. All children need love, affection and a feeling of belonging. If you do not receive it, which is very common for the middle child, you go through life distancing yourself from others."

Then, to straight to the point... My story..

Had a tiff with my dad today. Its tiring to quarrel over the same thing over and over again. For those who knows me well, he love his daughter(s) to manage his company for him. & sadly, i guess both (or perhaps its only me) aint really keen in doing that. its actually just typing invoices. Sounds easy, some of you might say. But seriously, it isn't.

1. At his own time (i mean really any time round the clock).

2. Speaking aloud the information with you sitting right in front of the computer. (& he must do it this way)

3. Repeatedly assuming his way in doing things is correct.

4. Believing in his own belief that his child should help him in typing invoices no matter what the situation around is like.

5. Very very persistent. Not letting you have the chance to say no.

Actually, i very much didnt wish to publish this. But I really need to illustrate it out to properly make my emotions more balanced. I spoke to baby about this several times. She taught me initially to compromise & give in to make each other life better. Yes, and i listened and did it when i was schooling, having hols etc...

But right now. Times are different. I've started working for almost 3 months. Telling you that I've been used to the alternate shift work style is a total lie. Try a morn-afternoon day to day alternating shift. You just need strength to carry on. I really cant comply to have the energy in assisting. I need my sleep.

So scenario of the day today at 1130am while i was preparing for my afternoon shift. Showered, changed and prep for work. I have abt 1 hrs time to leave home for the hospital. A normal nurse would want to have her own time to slack, play, surf the net and eat lunch! He refused to grant me that. He came into the room & said, "baoxin, help me type a few invoices leh". & i answered, "nope, can i pls not do it." He stood there pretending not receiving my answer & ask persistently again. In the end, i could not NOT comply. Reluctantly went to his desk trying to help him. & he got angry and started to throw things near me after me telling him that i do not agree of his way in doing up the invoice. I swear my body language was fine. But probably it was my tone werent really friendly (that's my fault).

Subsequently, with the throwing and banging things, he scolds, lectures, shouted etc.... I cried. Yes, i did. The content were too much.

He compared again me with my sister.

He also said, "I'm your father. Even if i want your limbs tdy, you got to give them to me! Without asking that including your time."

He also love to say why is that I would always do ppl's things so promptly & without complaints but not his?

Those two particular contents which he said made me think & think. Of 'cos it turned me off. Pretty upset and off to work i go after that with teary eyes.

I'm tired from doing all this. He always le-le-la-la the same thing but gets harsher. Then, he would feel bad. But each time i still get affected.

So, tell me. Is this what a middle child should get?

Or maybe is it 'cos the situation & my family background is different?

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*[ June 27, 2009 ]*

Stupidity, or dumbness, is the property of a person, action or belief instantiates by virtue of having or being indicative of low intelligence or poor learning abilities. Stupidity is distinct from irrationality because stupidity denotes an incapability or unwillingness to properly consider the relevant information.

Is it really part of me?

What do you think?

Do I always make the slightest and most minor mistake in the world which annoys you ever?

Shrugs...

Am I: Stupid? Incapable? Lousy? CMI? Bimbo-tic? Annoying? Slacker?

Hmmm.. Not emo-ing here.. Just doing my reflections aloud dears... Dont worry.

Anyways.. Had a great day with Baby. Movies and Shopping was fabulous. ;) She's my sweetest thing that revolves around my world. 2.5++ years and we're still counting.. ;D

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*[ June 24, 2009 ]*

Baby says, " Honey, I love you more every single day. Silly"

Yep! I'm her Little Miss Silly. & Only hers.

I hearts you too, baby!

p.s.: I will look at you and say I Love You, Baby.

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Since when was the last time L.A.B.S met up?
Since when was the last time we spend our time gossiping abt everything under the sun?
Since when was the last time we enjoy ourselves so so much?

Met up the girls on 23rd June! @ Novena//Square 2.
Ashley, Sharon and Baox met up first while waiting for the forever taking the longest time to meet us up - Linda...
3 of us went for the tea time special at Secret Recipe. ;)
We rant abt work, abt their 'sisters', our preceptors, abt life...

And then when Ms Linda finally came from work, we headed for a place for dinner: Its 'Bali Thai' (Ashley, if you manage to see this. Haha.) And you know when u put 4 pathetic broke girls tgt to have dinner, its kinda of budget.. ;P
So... My conclusion. The next meet up shall be just right after payday!!! ;)))

Migrated to coffee bean then for some slacking time tgt. Cldnt stay any much longer as the clock ticks. Had night duty to accomplish.... But wells.. We took dozens of pictures!

So, tell me. Since when was the last time we had so much Laughter, Amusement, Bliss and Smiles...
I'd say the company was irreplaceable.

xoxo

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Earlier in my post, i mentioned i went to the Rasa sentosa Hotel with the lovely coco bananas!!! It was lots of fun even thou i had work early in the morn and only join them like in the evening. (But, u know.. I'm glad i did!)

It was a nice place in terms of the descriptive wise.
Service and waiting time, I guess they still need to improve.. *laughs
(The rest can tell u why..)

Nevertheless! The rest met up early and had some adventurous activities.
The pictures were so all nicely taken (Thanks to Tian!)...

Then after checking in the hotel at abt 3pm. The grp went for some swimming at the pool! Even cousin also wore swimming costume can! But she is so sporting lah..
Bet wilson wld laugh till his jaw drop! (Shhh!! Don tell cousin plss...)

Joined them at abt 5+.. Went for jacuzzi and playing time with them. The 'tadah~' sound effect esp... The laughters were priceless...

Buffets there were okay, not to bad.. Enjoy quite a number of dishes.. ;)

Then games!!!! Taboo and Beach volley ball..
Addicted to both...

And almost all of us had to work the following day when we checked out..
Imagine, Pris and I were texting each other and facebooking while at night shift.. ;P

a glimpse of the hotel landscape from our room!

;))) thanks for the joy and fun...

yay! at rasa sentosa hotel...

Love so many pics!!!

coco banana - 1 ;D

one of a few shots at the buffet~

in the jacuzzi!

enjoying their delifrance while i was at work...

Can we do that again next time, coco bananas?

I miss all of you and the fun alr..

P.s: To cousin, hope things wld become better!

xoxo

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*[ June 23, 2009 ]*

This few days had been remarkably useful and awesome.
Meeting up with 3.1 and 2 monsters for MacD breakfast and outing to the Sengkang area swimming complex! It felt fruitful.. It seem like I hadnt done that with them for a long time.
Yes, due to pm shift...... Its not that i want to forsake them. I still love them, very very much!

As for the pics.. I heard it cant be uploaded in FB 'cos my girls all wore bikini.. Not that they are very conservative, but the fact that they're afraid to start a quarrel with their the other half.. ;/

Then, sunday. Went out with the lovely coco bananas. So nice of them to invite me for a 'mini holiday outing'.. Went to rasa sentosa hotel! So shiok.. Went there for jacuzzi, buffets, games, beach volley ball and slacking. It was fun!! Esp after many days of working, it felt like I took a break... Moreover, baby treated me.. ;) Don worry, I'm treating her really really nice too..

And as for the pics, its with Tian.. So, i'm really gonna wonder when wld i see the pics too! Haha.. Shall be patient and wait!

Its a great relaxing and pleasure weekend..
Love it and Love all of them.
They are beautiful and nice ppl. ;)

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*[ June 12, 2009 ]*

I'm right at the corner now~

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