some people likes singlehood.. others prefer being tied down... what would you exactly gain in a relationship???
when fate comes to you, questions like "is it worth it?" or "is he/she the right one for me"? naturally slip in and out of our mind...
in my opinion... the pros in being attached..
having someone to love you unaccordingly; accepting the ugly and beautiful side of you... the affection and passionate embrace drowns one in a romance... to have someone close to you to talk and listen to be it ups and down.. you would like to include your loved one in everything you do, to have him/her to like/dislike whatever you fancy/loathe... its like finding another piece of you or rather a soulmate...
everything comes in pros and cons... what do you fear most in a relationship?? is it the fear of being letdown or perhaps being neglected? what is stopping one in getting relationship? (besides fate that we are talking abt)...
in my opinion (again)... there are obviously cons in being tied down...
the lost of freedom that you may used to have before... the calls and messages that your partner used to track you down... many other actions that makes one cant breathe and feel tired abt... being in a relationship makes one loses himself/herself... someone who was independent, may not be like as before... he/she may become dependent... ultimately, it make you a changed person...
relationship makes one happy and sad...
its something that make you strong yet weak...
its abt accepting, negoitiating, trust and commitment...
it brought me laughter, it brought me tears...
i chose being attached, chose this path...
i've found my soulmate.. i hope...